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Representations of long-term relationships in both theory and popular culture are often limited to stereotypes that haunt actual relationships. I suggest that many long-term relationships go through a significant crisis, or crucible, that fundamentally alters the relationship, looks dysfunctional at the time, but may be resolved. Marrying elements of systems theory with psychodynamic theory helps us understand and work with these relational turning points.