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The following article draws from the literature of psychoanalytic shame theory to focus on the construct of white racial induction, what Thandeka regards as “white shame,” defined as the conscious experience of feeling indelibly flawed because one is not white enough. The article argues that the construct of “whiteness” as a false self constellation actually creates a racial identity that militates against the celebration of difference and the experience of humanity. When consciously reconstructed and recalled, these adults realize that at the center of their own white racial identity is the feeling of a child who grew up believing that he or she was not good enough to be loved for who they are beyond their racial induction. This feeling of not being good enough to be loved by one's own caretakers and community is a shame issue. Thandeka points out that the defense against such shame anxiety is to construct a false self identity of “whiteness,” a maneuver to find community support and affirmation. The accompanying affect to this search for group support is shame, a hidden race issue within white America. Shame seen in this regard becomes a social event: the failure of one's own caretaking environment to affirm the self in its own human terms as lovable. Thandeka's work seeks to underscore that the hidden shame issue among EuroAmericans is a key determinant of racism,
Thandeka, Ph.D., a theologian and Unitarian Universalist minister, teaches at Meadville/Lombard Theological School in Chicago. Before receiving her doctorate in theology, Thandeka (whose name, meaning “One who is loved by God,” was given her by Archbishop Desmond Tutu), spent sixteen years as an Emmy Awardwinning television producer, journalist, and talk show host.
This paper is reprinted from a chapter entitled “A Primer,” pp. 103-134 in Learning to be White, by , Copyright © 1999 by Thandeka. Reprinted by permission of the Continuum Publishing Company, 370 Lexington Avenue, New York, NY 10017.
sexism, homophobia, and violence against others scapegoated as “different.” In this article, Thandeka will explore this shame dynamic in regard to Christian shame theology—in particular, the story of Bill McCartney and The Promise Keepers, and the writings of Martha Nussbaum—showing how Christian shame theology informs pervasive relational experiences of EuroAmericans.