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A worthy issue, and Dr. Forrest's contribution is well thought out. However, I have two comments with related suggestions: to tell a patient NOT to talk about something is potentially to do harm. The issues of love, gratitude, a wish to contribute to something worthwhile are all important to mature psychological development (think of Erickson's stages of life).
Dr. Forrest states: “You can, in short, do or not do anything you wish. Just don't tell me about it. There is no time limit—it's up to you.” I would be more comfortable with: “You can, in short, do or not do anything you wish. And I will be available, as always, to help you explore or clarify your feelings about any aspect of this letter or the request if you wish. However, I do not ask for or expect any response from you,