This speculative paper concerns certain fundamentals of healing and psychotherapy which we mistakenly tend to take for granted. I discuss our need for the feeling of harmony, wholeness, and oneness. I call this archetypal need our ‘normal autistic expectation’. When met, we experience well-being and ‘healing’. If not sufficiently and reliably met, this expectation becomes an omnipotent demand (‘autistic demand’). Frustration then brings about angry destructiveness, either outwardly directed or inwardly directed, with bodily changes which must be processed if bodily damage is to be minimized.