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This paper examines why individuals seek and maintain long-term relationships despite the considerable difficulties involved. The author reviews observations from personal and clinical experience, as well as reflections from poets, Bollas and other psychoanalysts, concluding that the experience of loving another and creating a life together provides pleasure and meaning in addition to meeting a variety of intrapsychic needs.