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The feeling of loneliness appears at all critical moments of psychic development, especially in the transition from childhood to adolescence. The adolescent distances himself from previous attachments, tries to be alone, and searches for an only friend—a friend reflecting himself, like a mirror image. Even when together adolescents cannot avoid the feeling of loneliness, and they constantly
provoke situations in which they are rejected. This helps them rationalize the feeling of loneliness which leads to rage. Neurotic parents are offended by the sudden lack of affection and draw incorrect conclusions, further alienating the youngster. Adolescent regression seeks a resolution of infantile dependencies that are irreconcilable with mature object relations. The adolescent develops passionate transitional object relations which should be considered a defense against loneliness. The farther away he moves from his parents, the more he trusts the friend, the guide. The feeling of loneliness impels him to impose his rage on others. This is manifested in adolescent stubbornness, bellicosity, manner of dress, bragging, attack on teachers, tendency to accidents, etc. These youngsters need to feel that they are needed and it is wise to give them some responsibility.