A series of families with similar patterns in treatment was studied. The families had requested family therapy because of an identified patient, an adolescent whose symptoms spoke of attempts at independence. Four distinct phases of therapy were noted, culminating in the termination of the family therapy, by family consensus, and the continuation of treatment for the parents. In each case family therapy was selected by the parents as a defense against examining their own relationship. The notion of a family focus as a resistance to change is discussed.