The question of whether parenthood is a developmental "phase" or a "process" is the basis for this rich case report. Gurwitt notes the paucity of analytic studies of fatherhood. The analysis of a young man during the time of his wife's pregnancy and delivery is described. Four periods are discussed: "getting ready"; "conception, bridging and the early months"; "mid-pregnancy"; and "coming to term(s)." The author proposes that prospective fatherhood is a period of critical developmental challenge and change.