The following is a discussion of Tom Wooldridge’s (this issue) paper on primitive anxieties in anorexia and his metaphor of the “entropic body” as a false self “body-state” (Petrucelli, 2014) that functions to omnipotently deny dependency. The focus here is on how, for the eating disordered patient, primitive anxieties related to dependency and containment intertwine with the challenges of rapprochement, in which separation, agency, and awareness of sex difference emerge in a traumatic field. This response emphasizes the clinical utility of conceptualizing eating disorders as disorders of a gendered, agentic self. Wooldridge’s clinical material is discussed with a focus on (a) the salience of gendered enactments in work with eating disordered patients and (b) the relationship between experiences of “entropy” in the clinical dyad and the mutual disavowal of gender-inflected identifications and desires.