The case of Ms. Ambar is discussed with respect to where therapeutic action reside and the extent to which analytic interventions are experienced by the patient as calming or abandoning, as respectful of the level of intimacy that she can tolerate or as intrusive. Both Ms. Ambar and Scharff emerge in this case report as strong-willed and determined to make a go of a difficult situation, the analysis. Ms. Ambar conveys directly her vulnerability, sense of failure, and self doubts. Scharff conveys her self doubts and concerns privately in her comments.