The author demonstrates the value of Lichtenberg’s Systems Theory that enables the entry into the present moment in a depth interactive incoherence in the patient and therapist with a powerful transformative force love of life. Coherence and communication to the disorganization within the inner lives of both leads to creativity and intimacy. With Lichtenberg’s Systems Theory, the author uses his personal experience in understanding interaction which is similar to an analytic process acquired from many years of formal analysis and self-analysis including trauma and pain that leads to intimacy and the joy of life.