The author discovers a woman's life story from a Confucian family written almost hundred years ago, describing how Confucian devaluation of women affected Chinese women's sexual and gender identities. She thinks, “What is strange in this story is the question of where do these mothers come from who raise other nameless women? Are men also raised by these nameless creatures?” The author describes what she learned from her clinical observation about how a new young generation of Chinese women build their feminine identity nowadays.