Psychoanalytic assumptions and goals need not be viewed or approached from a purely individual analytic perspective. Families and especially marriages offer a unique opportunity for systems-oriented intervention to add therapeutic depth by addressing psychodynamic interactions in vivo. Doing so requires integration in therapy, as well as in theory, of the manner in which individual psychodynamics manifest in primary interpersonal systems. A model is presented which aims at translating and instilling a useful degree of analytic insight in members of marital or family systems. Insight into transferential distortions and behavior is facilitated by introducing the metaphor of unconscious “hopes” and “expectations” in the interactive contexts of conjoint and individual sessions. It is suggested that such an expansion of systems-oriented approaches is a crucial step in adding depth and durability to change.