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This article examines the psychodynamic concept of triangulation in German lesbian couples with children through sperm donation. Triangulation in psychodynamic theory often refers to a triadic relationship between mother, father, and a child and is significantly influenced by heteronormative and patriarchal family conceptions. Modern and queer family systems have not been integrated sufficiently into theoretical psychodynamic concepts, and lesbian women are underrepresented in relevant studies. With the help of a semistructured interview, the psychological experiences of lesbian mothers forming their own families in Germany are examined: Twelve lesbian couples share their perception on motherhood identity, parenthood, family roles, attachment to their children, and the role of the sperm donor. The responses were then coded and structured according to triangulation processes within the families and with the sperm donor. The findings demonstrate that mechanisms of triangulation arise from intersubjective relations, independent of parental gender, and thereby underscore the capacity of nonheteronormative families to foster healthy psychological growth and triangulation. These results should be included in the contemporary discourse of psychodynamic constructs.