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The post-partum days of a pregnancy are critical for the mother psychologically as well as physiologically: in reviewing the experience of giving birth, from the original phantasies of conception and pregnancy to the relationship with the newborn infant. During this stage the feelings and expectations that once focused on the future baby become blurred owing to the emergence of infantile parts of the self; these ask to be contained and comforted, in order that the woman's natural maternal instinct can express itself in her relationship with the baby. The baby needs to be fed, supported, and comforted by its mother in order to begin its new existence. This is a very critical time for the woman, who is in a fragile condition: “that very special condition which is similar to an illness even though it's perfectly normal”, as Winnicott (1958) writes. This state should gradually disappear after a few days or weeks, thanks also to the relationship that is established between the mother and the newborn (“breast relationship” and “holding”) and to their mutual adjustment.