From Freud to Winnicott, including the filmmaker Luc Dardenne, this article discusses how a destiny can become immobilized and how indifference, the death drive, can then reign. Play in psychodrama, like associativity in analysis, allows what had impeded the singular manner of being in the world of the infant to emerge in the transference. The human being can overcome indifference and rediscover the pleasure of playing and living, while taking the other into account, through an analytic or cultural experience.